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Tuesday, 10 July 2007

Random Confessions

I wonder how do people get my email address so easily?! Is it some kind of practical joke, where everyone suddenly knows my email, sends messages there, and when I started to creep out, they would just pop out from their hiding places and yell 'surprise! You're on candid camera!' I'm sorry, but I refuse to participate in this game which sole purpose is to humiliate me, cos it makes me think like I'm miss popular then suddenly whoa! You're just miss plain stupid, dot, end of story!

Which is funny in itself, because it certainly doesn't even make me feel good, let alone popular. This candid camera thing? See how I'm frowning here? Instead of laughing? Beats the whole point, doesn't it?

So let's think rationally here. It might have something to do with my blog, cos I put my email address in there. Yeah, that must be the only explanation, right? As in for Skype. Bloody hell, I don't even use it much, but it's always on everytime my laptop is on, and strangers are suddenly everywhere. What, they don't have enough contacts on their lists, so they decided to surprise an innocent, unsuspecting, naive stranger like me?!

Why does..I don't know, John Cusack never accidentally come across MY Skype?! Surely he sometimes use computer too, doesn't he?

And why are people who suddenly approached me in Skype always from China??!! Seriously, Taiwan, Shanghai...CHINA! I mean, is this Skype thing so big in there? Just like, MySpace in the US, or Bebo in Ireland? Well, I don't have a clue! I always end up ignoring them cos they have lousy english and I don't chat in there often.

Well, anyway. How many of you actually know that I love drawing? When I was small, I got into drawing course, and at kindergarten I actually won a colouring competition, despite a tiny weeny little bit fact that I coloured a frog blue. The judges must have thought there were really blue frogs species somewhere, or maybe the contestants weren't really that good, so they had no choice but to choose me as the winner. Either case, I'm not complaining! Although, I felt a bit pathetic if the latter case was true....damn it!

So, if I tell you that I drew this, would you believe me?

or this??

If your answer is no, I'm terribly hurt!

It was quite a bit contemplation I had before whether to get into journalism, or design? I finally chose journalism cos I wasn't too confident in the design thing, I'm not sure I'm that creative, see. But nowadays once in a while when the mood is there, I still like to draw just for fun.

Know what I miss about school? Writing in notebook! Using colorful pens like this!

We don't write much anymore nowadays in campus. Or..is it just me?! Am I just getting lazy? How depressing... And umm, that was old journal, I DO NOT skip class anymore, okay!!

So. This is 2 pm and I'm getting hungry. My class starts next week, phew, it's about time I have something to do! Now that I don't work anymore, I feel like a lazy bum. Saw an opening at sushi restaurant yesterday, maybe I'll give it a try. What happened to office job, you ask? I know, I know, but companies only want Singaporeans and PRs, it's so hard for me to get one. Besides, office hours are from morning to evening, I won't be able to work while I have class. Maybe I shouldn't concentrate on getting a job first, huh? After all, I should prioritize the study. But I feel helpless sometimes having no self-money, see.

ANYWAY. Worry about that later after I eat. Haha.

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Quotes

There's a hundred million different ways of writing, and it takes you a long time to sort through that stuff. And I think it takes anyone a long time to find a voice.

You must learn to take the good with the bad, the happy with the sad, love what you’ve got and remember what you had. Learn to forgive, but never forget, learn from your mistakes but never regret. People change and things go wrong, but you just have to remember that life goes on.

The day before I’m supposed to be meeting Caroline for a drink, I develop all the textbook symptoms of a crush: nervous stomach, long periods spent daydreaming, an inability to remember what she looks like. I can bring back the dress and the boots, and I can see her bangs, but her face is a blank.

I don't know, I think that if I could just accept the fact that my life is supposed to be difficult. You know, that's what to be expected, then I might not get so pissed-off about it and I'll just be glad when something nice happens.

I can see now I never really committed to Laura. I always had one foot out the door, and that prevented me from doing a lot of things, like thinking about my future and... I guess it made more sense to commit to nothing, keep my options open. And that's suicide. By tiny, tiny increments.

There's a big fucking world out there. It's messy, and it's chaotic, and it's never, never ever the thing you'd expect. It is ok to be scared, but you cannot allow your fears to turn you into an asshole, not when it comes to the people that love you, the people that need you.

Maybe what I'm saying is, is the world might be evolving the way a person evolves. Right? Like, I mean, me for example. Am I getting worse? Am I improving? I don't know. When I was younger, I was healthier, but I was, uh, whacked with insecurity, you know? Now I'm older and my problems are deeper, but I'm more equipped to handle them.

I am nothing special; just a common man with common thoughts, and I've led a common life. There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten. But in one respect I have succeeded as gloriously as anyone who's ever lived: I've loved another with all my heart and soul; and to me, this has always been enough.

Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.

A woman needs to be held, even, and science has shown this, if its with someone she doesn't care about. Protective hormones are released, and the amount of hormones released depends on the degree to which she is held. The first and best is the complete surround. He wraps you in both arms, whispers how beautiful you are. Second best is the 'arm around.' He is next to you but with one arm around you. Third is he's just next to you on his elbow, but he rests his hand on your stomach and looks at you. Fourth is you snuggling up to him with your head on his chest, while he looks away into space. But when the first best happens, you feel completely, wonderfully like a woman.

So, so what, so fuck off, go home, leave you alone? I'll tell you something Paul, there isn't anything that I've wanted for eighteen years, cause I was a kid eighteen years ago. And if I did still want the same things I'd think I'd gone wrong somewhere, because actually I don't want to marry David Cassidy, I don't want bigger tits, I don't want to do better on my marks. I've stopped worrying about that kind of thing and maybe you should try.

Well maybe there's a big bit of you that's gone missing somewhere, maybe everyone should want something they've always wanted.

Why is it that adults aren't supposed to go mad about anything? You gotta keep a lid on it. And if you don't then people are apparently entitled to say what they like. "You haven't grown up. You're a moron. Your conversation is trivial and boorish. You can't express your emotional needs. You can't relate to your children." And you die, lonely and miserable. But you know, what the hell, every cloud has a silver lining.

I just woke up one morning and didn't feel the same way. Where did it go? It was like there had been a lot of food on a plate in front of us, and we ate it all really quickly, and then there was nothing left. Maybe that's how couples stay together: they're not greedy. They know that what they have in front of them has to last a long time, so they kind of pick at it. I hope it's not like that, though. I hope that when people are happy together, it feels as though someone keeps piling seconds and thirds on their plates.

That is what I have learned: Sex is destructive. Love is nothing to be fooled with. I learned that I was dangerous, not to be trusted. I wondered if my parents were right, with all of their stiff lovelessness. Maybe they knew better. My parents don't dole out love for the deserving or the undeserving. I was learning that love could cost me.

You could say all you liked about reason and logic and common sense and imagination, but when the chips were down, the one skill you needed was the ability to think about absolutely nothing whatsoever.

There is a comfort in never making an effort, but it's a lonely comfort. What keeps you going is the knowledge that you're only playing with only four cards showing. But when you see other people succeeding with their mediocre hands, you have to make a decision. If you turn over that final card you're certain of victory, but it also means you have nothing in reserve.

I’d gone through life believing in the strength and competence of others; never in my own. Now, dazzled, I discovered that my capacities were real. It was like finding a fortune in the lining of an old coat.

Maybe we all live life at too high a pitch, those of us who absorb emotional things all day, and as mere consequence we can never feel merely content: we have to be unhappy, or ecstatically, head-over-heels happy, and those states are difficult to achieve within a stable, solid relationship.